In a moment of delirious pseudo-philosophical, I had a sort of click, while I must say it in a foggy state, half asleep, or rather spread across my bed ...
And this is the next snap, but before everything you say, needed a little detour:
I always charged, blame, self-flagelée even on my inability to live in this, to be in the moment.
Now we live in an era where the dominant ideology is to be happy, you must be in the moment.
is almost the tyranny of Living in the present.
Hence my dilemma and my desperate attempts to retain the present that never stops evaporating, between reminiscences of past and future projections.
But I tell you I had a revelation: he is simply IMPOSSIBLE to live with this because the human brain that dictates our actions, requires cognitive elements of past and future to work and we move forward.
The smallest decision, even the most mundane of daily life, needs to draw on information stored in memory and projections about the future is a kind of prism decision.
For example, I meet a new person.
To adjust my verbal and nonverbal,
I need my past experience (my degree of sociability, narcissistic injury, level of ego, mimicry with people of the past, such inofrmations tberguig etc etc)
and also myself in the future (I'll be friendly with that person and develop the relationship? Yes, if I project myself with this person in the future)
result, it is simply impossible to live with this, our brain is simply not formatted.
And no offense to all the books on psychology and personal development, high fashion of the moment, live for the moment (The Power of Now) is an illusion, a chimera, an urban myth, a sham a hoax,
All this of course, this is only my humble opinion and only my opinion!
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